How Do You Say Thats In Spanish

So, you're trying to impress someone (or maybe just order a taco) and you need to know the most crucial phrase in any language: "That." As in, "I want that taco," or "What is that?" Well, buckle up, amigo, because the world of "that" in Spanish is more colorful than a flamenco dancer's skirt.
The most common way to say "that" in Spanish is "eso". Think of it as your all-purpose, go-to "that." See a weird-looking dog? "¿Qué es eso?" (What is that?) Someone doing something questionable? "¡No hagas eso!" (Don't do that!). "Eso" is your reliable friend, always there when you need it.
But wait! There's more! Spanish, in its infinite wisdom, gives us options, and these options depend on...drumroll please...gender. Yep, just like with people, objects in Spanish have a gender. It sounds crazy, but stay with me.
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If you're pointing at something masculine and relatively close to you, you'll use "ese". Imagine you're in a Spanish market and spot a particularly handsome sombrero. You'd point and say, "Quiero ese sombrero." (I want that hat.). Note that sombrero is a masculine noun.
Now, what if you're eyeing a beautiful, flowing dress (which, naturally, is feminine)? Then you'd use "esa". Picture this: "Me gusta esa falda." (I like that skirt.)." Falda is feminine. See how it works? Each object is matched up correctly.

Think of it like this: "Ese" is the cool, laid-back dude "that," while "Esa" is the elegant, sophisticated "that." "Eso" is the neutral, all-around pal who gets along with everyone.
Distance Matters! No, Seriously!
Still not complicated enough? Of course not! Distance also plays a role. If "that" is farther away, we get even more versions. But don’t despair! Here are the far away versions.
For far away masculine nouns we have "aquel". "Aquel hombre es muy alto" (That man is very tall).

And for far away feminine nouns we use "aquella". "Aquella casa es bonita" (That house is pretty).
Finally, for a far away "that" and where the gender is not specified or doesn't matter, we have "aquello". "Aquello fue divertido" (That was fun).
It might seem overwhelming, but with practice, it becomes second nature. Just remember to picture the object, assign it a gender in your head (even if it’s just a silly association!), and consider how far away it is.

Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
One of the biggest mistakes beginners make is using "eso" for everything. While it will usually get you understood, it's like wearing socks with sandals – technically functional, but not exactly stylish.
Another common error is mixing up the genders. It's easy to do, especially with words you're not familiar with. Don't be afraid to ask! Native speakers are usually happy to help, even if they chuckle a little at your struggles.
The best way to learn is to listen to how native speakers use "that" in real conversations. Watch Spanish-language movies and TV shows, listen to Spanish music, and try to incorporate the different forms of "that" into your own speech. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes.

"That's All Folks!" Or Is It?
Mastering "that" in Spanish might seem like a small thing, but it's a huge step towards fluency. It shows that you're paying attention to the nuances of the language and that you're committed to speaking like a local.
So, go forth and conquer the world of "that"! Remember "eso," "ese," "esa", "aquel", "aquella" and "aquello", embrace the gender madness, and don't be afraid to laugh at your mistakes. After all, even the most fluent Spanish speakers stumble sometimes. And hey, at least you'll have a great story to tell – in Spanish, of course!
Remember: The key is to have fun with it. Learning a new language should be an adventure, not a chore. So, grab a taco, point at something interesting, and confidently declare, "¡Quiero eso!"
